Sunday, March 20, 2011

The passing of a good friend





My heart is heavy.  It joins so many others who have been saddened by the death of Marianne Frazier.  

She impacted an uncountable number of lives in such a loving manner.  Always dedicated to her family, she was also a respected colleague, beloved teacher, and trusted friend.  To many, she was all of the above.  I met Marianne the first day I arrived as a teacher at Redwood almost twenty years ago.  Being the only two teachers who traveled between Main Campus and Sierra Vista that year, we shared a common bond.  She took me under wing, helping me to navigate my way through the intricacies of working in a new school.  During the years that I taught English Marianne was my inspiration, as we taught like classes and shared lessons.  Our prep times were the same for many years and it was Marianne and I who, on the way from SV to MC, used to pick up the Friday lunches at Pepe Pollo.  Our friendship cemented itself during those years.  Marianne had the ability to see things clearly and logically and, with a kind hand and humorous outlook, lead others in the right direction.  In that way Marianne helped me work through situations both professionally and personally. 

 Love of family and home guided her life, followed by love of friends.  She created a special bond with each of her many friends and all of us felt the strength of that connection.  Her next love was reading.  Commonly heard in Book Group was "Ask Marianne.  She's probably read it." Even after retiring, Marianne kept a special place in her heart for Redwood and Redwood, I know, counts her as one of its special people as well.

Through the years Marianne became a dear friend and confidante and our paths crossed often until Gary and I moved away.  I spoke with her on the phone several days before she passed away.  Out of necessity it was a short conversation - caring, yet matter of fact, with a little humor thrown in as well - typical Marianne.

The world is a sadder place.  I miss you, Marianne.